So, our holiday in Italy is at it's end. Beautiful sights, wonderful food, fantastic wine, nice people. Mostly everyone, even in remote areas spoke some English. Many were quite fluent in English. Only an occasional person spoke only a few English words.
We have been to Italy before, so we were expecting loud, quick moving pace. We sooned learned however, that standing in line for a boat, bus or anything at all, meant nothing. One could be standing in line for 30 minutes waiting for a means of transportation to have folks walk up and go right in front of you. If you are wondering if this was because we were not Italian, that isn't the case. They all push and shove in front of one another. German folks push in front of every one too. If you stand and wait like you have good sense, you will lose. So, after about 4 to 5 days we learned to push and shove our way to whatever it was we wanted - even gelato!! This morning at the airport, where one usually is expected to queue up for British Airways, we found ourselves waiting for boarding at American Airlines - and noted that if this was England they would be killed for not abiding by the queue rules.
They stand in the middle of busy sidewalks and have conversations - we learned to plow right past them, sometimes through them. Push them aside and ride your wheeled luggage over their feet - it's what one does to get around. By all means, stop and fuss over a baby or young child of any age. Babies are sacred, must be fussed over, patted on the head and are definitely show stoppers. One baby can stop traffic anywhere - for all friends to stop and fuss.
Toilets. For the most part the hole in the ground Turkish toilets are minimal. Times have changed. However, now there are porcelan bowls, about 12 inches off the ground and with flushable water. No toilet seats - even in the fancy Vatican facilites. Most of the them flush only half the time; some Italian lady came out of a stall where I was waiting - fussing, making gestures it wouldn't flush. Toilet paper - smart travelers carry a roll with them, or a least a pack of tissues. Even in cafe rest rooms, toilet paper can be a non entity. Some co-ed toilets - individual stalls, everyone comes out and washes hands together. Being a savvy traveler, I was able to show a male traveler how to turn on the spigot - with the foot pedal of course!! Apparently some folks are not used to flushing at all - one had to go in behind them and flush first before using. These were Italian folks - who just aren't used to bathroom faciities as we know them. It was always a relief to get back to our hotel or B&B where there was a toilet as we know it. However, even in your hotel room, bright light is not always a priority. And, towels do get thinner as you go further south.
Pickpockets and thieves: while I bought our rail tickets for our trip from the ticket machines, Jim guarded our bags and kept waving away the thieves that try to steal your tickets. Polizia sort of just watch them. All train stations, tourist areas, have signs saying watch your bags, be careful of pickpockets. A man at our hotel had his wallet stollen on the Circumvesuviana train. Poor dude just didn't know he shouldn't carry a wallet at all!!
Tickets. Want to buy a ticket for a bus to go across country?? No where near where the bus is - one buys tickets at a tabacchi - but not necessarily the one near where the buses pull in. Could be 1/4 mile away - missed bus one morning for trying to locate the right one. Buses come in and park, and it's anyone's guess as to what bus yours will be - and it might be early or it might be late - or they might tell you it is not going at all despite posted times.
On time: what's that? If your train does arrive on time, don't expect it to get to your destination on time. Oh, hope you don't have connecting train.... Why isn't the bus or boat leaving, where's the driver??? Sitting across the road in the shade having a smoke. Simple explanation.
Big coach brings you into town where there is supposed to be small shuttle. Yup, there is the shuttle, there is the driver and there is not schedule. Driver says " No Go".
Food: just beyond belief, the freshest tomato sauce - really cooked tomatoes, olive oil, maybe a little fresh basil. One can easily just come to Italy to eat great food and see beautiful things.
Wi-fi access: they don't advertise as having it. If you ask, perhaps they do! Or, in some places charge 6 euro an hour. Some charge to use their computer, many were amazed that I had laptop with me! It's not something Italian folks seem to do. Even last 4 star hotel in Milan - wi-fi was free if you had own computer; they charged you to use theirs.
Traffic. Red lights are a suggestion. If you want to cross street - just walk out in front of them. Watch out for the Vespa's or scooters on the sidewalk; if you want to get someplace, just go - or you would be waiting to cross all day. Best bet on busy street, walk out behind a pregnant woman or a nun - if you need to feel safe. Once you get the hang of it, you too could cross the street in Napoli.
Gelato: one gets used to buying it was proprietor's that make their own...... it does make a difference!!
Organization: there is none. No order to anything - Malpensa airport was great example; it amazed me that we even got up in the air at all - 15 minutes late of course! We have used Linate in the past - did not seem quite a chaotic as Malpensa. British Airways can board a 767 in less than 30 minutes - we have done it. It wasn't American Airlines ( we don't think) , but theI talian staff - just no organization. What has surprised us on the whole trip is the comparison to Greece.
When we went to Greece we expected it to be very different from the rest of Europe. However, they are very organized, have buses which take you from one town to another where the next bus is waiting for you. Bus drivers sell tickets, or you buy them in a kiosk right next to bus stand. They are very traveler friendly. Everyone in Greece had wi-fi, bright bathrooms, and toilet seats!! We were amazed that Italy is still back where it was many years ago with no changes made to join the modern world.
I can now buy train tickets in Italian - bought the tickets for going all over the country at the local machines. I also know can use the ATM (Bancomat) machines that don't have English translation. And, I can buy gelato if they don't speak English. All the important things.....
So, go to Italy! Eat, drink and join the chaos - and don't be in a hurry!!